You could go on a short camping trip by a river/creek and have a bonfire and go swimming and stuff. Set up a badminton game, tell scary stories, hike, ride bikes, buy stupid souvenirs, eat hotdogs, get drunk if you guys are into that!

I advice to you that you suggest your heart. then also toss yes or no. For party and clubbing.

i went to the spa for my 21st birthday, and it was a lot of fun!

With family and friends: brunch or dinner, bowling, amusement park, beach, hiking.

Make good food and gather neighbor, party together.

These guys will even let you toss them! I will be doing this soon. I wish I had known about them for my 21st.

http://www.rentamidget.com/

you may organized entertainment like dancing, sining, comedy drama, comedy jokes, etc. it will be better if you, yourself take participate for entertaining your friend or realtives.

My 21st Birthday is coming up and I was looking for some ideas on what I can do, I would like to do something with my entire family and other than just the typical party I want something I guess active and fun. I am also looking for Ideas on what to do with my friends instead of going clubbing, I'm not really into clubbing. Does anyone have any suggestions?