If you dont have great upper body strength, use your knees, grab her hair, pull her down and knee her in the face a few times. Get her in a headlock, its easy, and punch the shit out of her ribs. If she grabs your arm or something twist your arm towards her thumb she wont be able to hold on. I like to use my head, so get right in her face so she doesnt see it coming and headbutt her in the face. Let her hit you once or twice first so itll be 'self defence' if cops are called. Punch her in the throat or something, get creative.

Best thing is to avoid the fight all together, don't talk shit, don't show up and let her be. Learning to fight well take years to obtain the knowledge and even longer to master. I personally have trained in three arts spanning 10 years and consider myself an intermediate student.

you can't. it takes years of training to be able to fight effectively.

EDIT: and by the way, you're going to be arrested after you fight her, if you do. just keep that in mind, and before you go, think about it. is it worth going to jail and being charged with a felony just to hurt someone else for no good reason?

1. Avoid a "street" fight if it's at all possible. There are no rules.

2. http://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=A0oG...

Use the force..

When I confront this girl at a party on Friday night, I don't get my ass beat.

I want to hurt her, she wants to hurt me. Except, I have no idea what she looks like and I have never been in a fight before.

I probably can't out strength her, so where can I learn some cool tricks so that I win this fight?

**Just if you're curious, it's over her trying to break me and my boyfriend up.